Saturday night I had a virus of some sort as did our girl. Nabal cooked, thank you. Nabal offered beer, he'd bought a 24 pack, no thank you. Our boy is friends with 2 Iranian young men and they bring their hooka. Nabal went in and started eating the hooka tobacco, and swallowing it. Told the boys that when he was young they would eat it to get high. (thanks for sharing) He asked our girl why she was too skinny... (she is actually perfect size neither skinny nor fat) Asked her if she was doing something to stay skinny. (Was that implying she has an eating disorder?) He than told her she needed to drink beer to get her weight up... So, can everyone see the control thing, the abuse coming out here? Last time he said she would get fat because she ate too much. His MO- tear esteem down then show he loves you through your glaring imperfections. So you begin to isolate because he is telling you what others are thinking... What an abject jerk!! The same night Nabal got mad that our girl was in her brother's room talking to his friends. She has known many of them for years. He comes down saying the boys were talking about sucking and f@@@ing, and other 'nasty sh$$'. I defended the boys I can hear from the basement and her brother was present and I knew Nabal was lying. Then he got to what he wanted to do. "I'm going to throw that boy Erick out he's too old. I'm going to F$$k him up." Wow... Then he asks if a good Christian home has a girl talking to all those boys. Well, a good Christian home doesn't have a drunk wandering (stumbling) around telling kids how to get high, being obvious about his lady friends, and trying to mess with his daughter's head.
Caught a text from Ms. Mary last week: Hi...how are u? Are u goin to be nice to me?.... ;) Yeah he's been writing all over his facebook hellos to her, on pictures, in messages, on her wall. He left his FB open the other day. Looking at the history he spent a while looking through her pictures. Good!
Our girl had the opportunity to look at the whites of Nabal's eyes when wonder of wonders they were not red. She said they are yellow.
Nabal is very upset that one of the church sister's is divorcing her husband. His butt will be in a sling if they do... This is the brother who knows what Nabal does and thinks he should not be officiating over any service. Nabal caught him in exactly what the man's wife caught him at and the outcome was bribery and extortion, by Nabal. Wasn't it bad enough to say he'd tell the man's wife about porn if the guy told the church on him? Nooooo, he had to demand and take money too. So, if they divorce Nabal would have no hold over the guy. He's asking if that is any reason for the woman to divorce her husband. If it's something she doesn't want to deal with, then yes! I told him it was none of his business and stay out of it. He's going up there trying to be a counselor to her... He's not trying to serve God and save a marriage, he's trying to cover his a$$. Plain and simple.
He had the music people finally leave again. Last time he dragged them back. I asked why if people wanted to leave they felt compelled to drag everyone back, to guilt them back. Yes go talk to a person to see if there is something you can help with, but this is control.
Last week he got found a bottle of dinner wine I had in the downstairs fridge. He drank it all, won't be buying any more. He was working with power tools, put up crazy doors, blasted the stereo at 2 a.m. until I turned it down. Said the kids kept him up. Finally he fell down and couldn't get up. He passed out there on the basement floor and 2 and a half hours later he roused and went up stairs. All our boy's friends just laugh at the old drunk...
There's more... I just have to remember.
