Thursday, February 9, 2012

Here We Go...

If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. I know the problem...

Every day Nabal asks, "What are we going to do for Valentines Day?" He asks every day like he didn't ask the day before. Every day he has a new suggestion. Today it was a movie. I gave the same answer, "What you always do. Which is nothing." Then he quietly asks, "Get a motel room?" I ignore him and he gets louder until I can hear him. I say no and he innocently asks why. I tell him he can go if he wants. He says, "You come stay with me?" Me: NO! Nabal: Why? I start giving reasons, he leaves. What part of No...? Trying to wear me down... no gonna happen. Just hate these games. Told him I want divorce, not going to play his games again- he refuses to hear. Even keeps looking up $200,000+ homes he says we are going to buy. I told him I am getting out of our state and to a way cheaper place where I have friends. He did try to say he would go too, even suggested Texas. Nope! He is just pretending he doesn't hear me, and I know there is a method to this, like inferring that no matter what I want, need, think, he can ignore me, doesn't matter. I'll never get away. Depressing..

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