Super Dad

So just before school let out for the holidays and just after I told Nabal that the kids were old enough to decide who they wanted to live with if he were to leave, Nabal became super dad... He suddenly found all the missing papers for our boys schooling and looked at his grades. He then 'informed' me of what classes the children were taking and how they were doing. They started school in August! It's December. He had no clue or care before this. So every day for two weeks I had to hear, "Have you checked on the children's school work this week?" Wow, good thing he finally woke up! I would have never known anything- NOT! Then he gets on a big campaign because of a winter concert. Asks me if I'm going... or am I going to school... I informed him that the children and I had crossed that bridge a year ago and they knew that I was going to have to miss after school functions, but they also knew that I was going to be back as soon as I was through. He was actually trying to make me feel bad because I wasn't going to the concert! He who has either skipped or gone drunk. So he was, days leading up very concerned as to how the kids would get there. I just kept telling him he was going to be home- figure it out. So the day of: he got them there and picked them up. He, NEVER went. When I got home he had nerve to report all the comings and goings, like it was a hardship. When I asked him if he went, he started to mumble and looked into the TV. As they say- when the rubber meets the road...