Saturday, November 6, 2010

Saturday

Well Saturday started early. I have discovered why Nabal is so amiable. I think...

So, Mary finally sent him a picture. then looks like he forwarded it to CM. Weird. But he is on a campaign to get all the ladies to send him photos. He's going to send them pics if they sends theirs to him. 3 more months until I can get a real job in my new field. Well, and a little more until I can build up a cushion for me. I'm so very tired. This drinking just brings out the worst in all of us, including Nabal. He came in and turned around and went back out. Another night of drinking. I know where he's going because he didn't bother to shower and change. He'll roll in here late and be obnoxious. Such is life.

I was wrong... he had finer fish to fry. Seems he had something on me that he could use. So showered and looking like he was ready for a date. He asked me about a girl who was here all night. She is a girl friend of a friend of our boy. She is a girl who doesn't get along with other girls so hangs with the boys. They came in at a reasonable hour- our boy, another boy and the young lady in question. I went to sleep with the expectation that they would take her home. Our boy fell asleep and the others watched movies all night. When I found out it did not sit right with me. I know this girl does not live with family, but roommates, even though she is in high school and have heard that she does this frequently. All of a sudden this turned into all my fault, and my morals were called into question. This is from the drunk who will smoke dope in front of him, talk about all his past sexual conquests and tell him he should be doing more. Plus the kids know see and hear him talking to other women trying to be the lover. Yes I should have kicked them out and double checked as I fell asleep on the sofa and woke thinking they had already taken her home while I was asleep. Error in trust on my part. I went through the whole day thinking they took her home the night before. I did speak with our boy and he did try to explain that he fell asleep. I told him that was not a reasonable excuse and that that was to not happen again. Nabal yelled and explained that he would be the one in trouble if something happened. He then said that he always went to sleep at 9 because of work. Even our girl said he had not done that in more than a year. As he went to bed he, Nabal said he was leaving tomorrow so he would not be in the way...

I am going to get the kids together and explain to them that we have to be above board with everything because I think that Nabal will try to make life hard for us. He is not above calling social services to make trouble. He wants our boy to go with him when he does leave and he might get vindictive when the boy declines. Plus the three of us have to learn to work as a unit. I have been noticing recently that our boy has gathered, subconsciously a lot of traits that reek of Nabal. Like leaving things around and expecting I or his sister to pick up after him. We will have to be a team in order to make this happen and work well. Once I get going in my career I will actually have more time to spend at home and be around for the kids. Pretty much set my own hours.

This is Nabal- I was sorting and putting away socks and underwear on the bed. I left the laundry basket on the bed by accident and when I returned to the room to turn off the light Nabal was in bed asleep (passed out). Lights on and laundry basket still on the bed on top of his feet... He never helps, and now even less as I am working.

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