Alcoholism

Nabal, lays passed out on the basement floor in urine soaked pants. He went to a wedding, well to the party since he left after 8 pm. Evidently he lost his car keys...and his weed. Only keys he had to the truck. Thank God he lost those keys. He came in to try yet again to plead his undying love- "Hey, can I get a lil pu$$¥? You know I love you...I cry so much for you, but you think I'm a bad boy. Maybe I'll leave." He missed the sofa where I sleep just for this reason- and ended up on the floor.

"No one likes me when I'm drunk. I'm the nicest person. I'm not going to F (you get the picture) with then anymore!"

Thank God he lost his keys. Maybe someone saw how drunk he was and hid them. I did something today I haven't really been able to do in a long time- I prayed for him. Thank God he lost his keys- he could have killed someone.

I had a class out west last week, and my married child was coming into town for his job. Nabal decided to make a trip to Mexico. He needed to see his mom, it was what he needed to get better. His words: living like this is killing me.

I went on the way to class and remembered how much I like his family. I left shortly then all heck broke loose.

Nabal spent his entire visit drunk. He drank when he opened his eyes in the morning until he passed out at night. He upset his family, his mother. He told her it was all her fault for being a bad mom... Because she was trying to plead with him to stop. He went dancing, because his cousins couldn't stop him from accompanying them. He flirted outrageously with his younger brother's wife. He tried to pick up a woman- and take her to a hotel. Then regaled his cousin with the story the next day, while interjecting how much he loved his wife. Unfortunately his cousin is recently divorced due to cheating...

His mother was devastated by his words. He went just to see her because she's ages so... I'll bet he just wanted to stop her from lecturing him about his drinking- yup, alcohol isn't first love- it's the only love. 

He tried to fight his niece's boyfriend... Just really upset the niece. 

Needless to say, his family was in shock with the escalation of his drinking.