Smoking Gun?

Well... Last night Nabal was very, very drunk. He passed out trying to convince me of his love, threatening, anger. He'd awakened me around 3:30 a.m.

Yup I looked for his phone. Figured nothing was there since the text wars between Mary and my kids. No phone. Finally he staggered upstairs. He had Pablo in the house so I want going looking. Couldn't fall asleep went to the bathroom. Phone! Like a gift! Thank you Lord!

First message from Mary. Evidently Nabal followed Mary and had some sorry of encounter with her while she was with another man she...keeps time with.

Important, Nabal was not Mary's escort for the new years party. It was this man. He had hit her around Xmas- ergo family displeasure at his being at the party.

Mary accused Nabal of rape. Said she still had the condom from the deed and was going to have him arrested. Oddest language- she was saying how disappointed she was in his actions since they were friends. Oh, and he was a man of God... how she'd kept their friendly relationship a secret since he was married.

Rape! WTF? He never denied it. Just replied with obscenities. By the first of March they were back to chatting and lol-ing. Somewhere in there he did ask her to not talk about what happened between them with other people, but keep it between the two of them. She admitted they were cheating. Nabal asked Mary to hook him up with one of her girlfriends. A black one.

Again, WTF?

Nabal told Isela that he was now single. Her reply- What happened? Did she catch you cheating?
Nabal- too many ladies. But what I need it's a woman friend I can talk to.

Nabal was overheard saying he was moving to Borger, TX.

Nabal told some woman on Facebook that he was getting a divorce.

So tell me why today he was acting like a wounded soul. Wanting a hug. Wanting to talk. How much he loves me. (Almost laughed aloud) He kept trying to touch me. (Creeped me out.) Wanted to wash where he touched. He forced himself on a woman! He told her because she's been doing the same thing to him for years to get money. (Figuratively I'm guessing) Oh but I believe he did it. He never denied it at all.

Just hope somehow what I've gathered can get an at fault divorce so this doesn't have to go on for years.

I was never quite sure, but nite I am. He's actually worse that I'd ever wanted to think.

Lawyers here I come!