Last Thursday

He's asking if I thought on our reuniting.
He's going to get me flowers. (the first real hearts and flowers of the hearts and flowers phase)
He's pushing to get my pastor involved...

I talked to my pastor last night. He was shocked to find out he was on Nabal's radar. I explained what was going on and Nabal's wasn't of immediate gratification. He said 6 months solids good behavior. I told him I was past that and just wanted out.

It's like Nabal can read minds. Probably body language and the kafuffel with Mary. I was and still am getting to that lawyer.

Then...he came downstairs...odd hard look on his face. He was asking about my tracking his phone. (which I never did...contemplated it many times, never did it) He said he needed them and could I give them to him... Huh? I told him I hadn't tracked his messages, and didn't have any. (he lies to me...I felt no guilt.) He wouldn't look at me, went back upstairs.

I'm thinking he wants to see what was sent to Mary. This may be all about buttering me up to get what he wants. To make things right between him and Mary again.

This is not about me at all.

Last night I stood my ground in a pretty strong way. He groaned, he swore he'd never lie again, he'd be good.

My answer:
Why would I believe a liar, a consummate liar, when they swear never to lie again?

He had to pause himself...

I told him it was over, I was done and wanted out. In those words. No mincing words.